I love how everyone these days is all “natural.” This is very funny how a lot of new guys in the community preach natural without having anything to back it up.
Sure its great to be natural but how?
This is the question they always can’t answer. Don’t get me wrong, I haven’t talked to everyone, but after talking to a senior instructor from a well-known pickup company the other week I came to the conclusion that he was absolutely full of shit.
It’s pretty easy once you go into field a lot to tell who has real-world skill [Click to Continue Reading…]
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natural game,
Natural verse Routines,
routine based game,
Vibing
Recently through out many of my interactions I feel confident in opening and transitioning most of the time then I go into vibing. I can vibe with a single girl or a group of girls and we both can keep the conversation going for over an hour even in a high energy loud venue. A month ago I couldn’t do this at all but now it goes.
The main sticking point I find in this and I’ve been talking with Edge a lot about it is the fact that it feels like I am pulling at strings trying to find common ground. Not forcing it in anyway but lets just say trying to really connect with some one on stuff.
I’ve noticed I just vibe off the club and what people do for fun and what they do for work. This is a fun social vibe but it doesn’t have a huge draw. Its just fun but not oh my god you are the coolest person fun.
It came to me after [Click to Continue Reading…]
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Amping it up,
Eliciting values,
Goals,
passions,
Values,
Vibing