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housepartypuaLegend and I were talking recently about this whole game.  Call it what you want:  dating skills, learning how to be great in a relationship, learning game, being a pick-up artist, etc.

I discovered the materials of the seduction community/pick-up arts 10 years ago and I have been a student ever since.  Thing is, how I have perceived this area of my life and how I have pursued it has changed dramatically over the years.  This is all stuff I have talked about in prior posts, so I am not going to repeat myself.

What I want to talk about here is the idea of “gaming without game“.  What do I mean by that?

Well, the seduction community’s mentality has generally been that solid “game” is to learn some psychological tricks/manipulations and then to deliver them through conversation in one way or another.

Now, in the past few years the concept of “the natural” has been introduced, but nobody has really been able to pin down the concept of being a natural other than to convey it through vague philosophies and by painting tantalizing pictures of having effortless, seamless “game” by just having a good vibe.  I want to make clear that that is not what I am talking about here.

So what am I talking about when I say gaming without game?

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dhvBecoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution

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DHVing and Being Higher Value

What is higher value as a concept?

Being Higher Value then other people and talking about higher value as well as demonstrating it does work well but I do not really agree with the classic community way of doing it. Sure you can always try to be cooler than everyone else but that in itself is kind of reactive. Some of you will not agree with me but everyone has their own way of doing things.

How to use it?

Instead I focus on things that I naturally love talking about and doing. My passions! I let my emotions demonstrate value for me instead of worry about logically demonstrating it through gimmicky stuff. Logically demonstrating value sure does work but women are emotional so there is no need to logically demonstrate value. Read in the next chapter about story telling for more information.

Embedding Attraction switches in stories

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