Here and there, people will talk about giving and taking value in social settings and interactions. In my last post, I wrote about how I’ve begun throwing house parties with my roommates as a way to meet women and give value to all of my guests. It works phenomenally.
But let’s step back and take a look at giving value as a concept. Giving value is basically the mere fact that if someone aligns with you in any sense, they will be closer to getting something they want than if they did not talk to you.
As a random example: by virtue of knowing someone like Hugh Hefner personally, you become a person who gives value to people when they align with you. The other people who align with you would be thinking on some level, “If he knows Hugh Hefner, then that means that I someday might get a trip to the Playboy mansion!”
Or if someone is really funny and crazy, people will [Click to Continue Reading…]
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