Getting good at picking up women consistently comes down to two things: balls and strategy.
Yes, there are a ton of books about picking up women. Yes, there are countless audio seminars, DVDs, lectures, theories, etc.
But none of that stuff matters if YOU aren’t doing anything. None of it matters if you are overwhelmed with all the material instead of inspired and assisted by it.
The truth is, it’s good to have a baseline of understanding of women and pick-up, but very early on you need to make the commitment to stepping up and taking action.
Once you have made that commitment and you are taking action, you have to have the willingness to keep pushing beyond doing what you are used to, what you are comfortable with and what think is easy.
Simultaneously, you have to be honest with yourself. You need to try things over and over again and honestly record what’s happening. Then you need to [Click to Continue Reading…]
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I’ve talked on this blog about some of the inner game issues that I deal with.
This blog started out as a journal for Legend and I to talk about the stuff we face in the real world. Sure, we talk about our successes and techniques we use, but it’s not our objective to put up a front of being a superhuman master pick up artist.
Friday night, I stayed in. I just didn’t want to be around people. My feeling was that I was in such a bad mood that I didn’t want people to see me so down. Moreover, I felt like if I forced myself to approach women, my crappy state would poison the interactions and I would just feel worse.
I took some time to myself and did some work, then did a powerful, refreshing meditation session. Once I had a moment to unplug, I realized what it was.
I was [Click to Continue Reading…]
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