Before I really got a handle on my personal success with women, I used to have a few glaring sticking points when it game to learning “game.” I wanted to talk about them to give you guys an idea of where I came from and what I had to break through to start achieving success.

At first I think because of the ‘marketing’ in the pickup community I was always searching and studying products for that “perfect” way to get girls. This led me always to be searching for something that I felt would fit my personality instead of going and figuring out what works for me in real life.  This plagued me for a long time until I decided to scrap everything and build up what I knew from the ground up.

Another one of my huge sticking points when I started was the fact that a lot of the stuff out there on pick-up seemed really flashy. I didn’t live in down town LA and there certainly weren’t a lot of bleach blonde actresses I could go around negging.  Simply put I couldn’t’ relate to a lot of the guys out there teaching this stuff.   Being all natural with out a solid game plan didn’t help either.

Sure it all sounded good on paper and I read all about these amazing success stories but a lot of it didn’t really fit into my life.  It didn’t seem real to an average everyday guy.  I was just an electrical engineer not a flashy club guy.  Nor did I ever want to become a flashy PUAHHHH.

The tipping point. I met Edge and we really decided to scrap everything and start over.  Build our own version of success biased on the principles of what worked.  Not what worked for other people but the principles behind what they where doing.  We started to look at what worked and talked about why it did.   We backwards engineered it and started from ground zero.  This allowed us to create a way to study for ourselves that made it so we could create our own personal way to game.  Not any guru’s way but our own. We did and let me tell you although Edge and I went through all the same steps we created for ourselves we ended up in two different places.

We both achieved success in our own ways and game completely differently.

My point is there is no right way and everyone wants something different but still all the people out there teaching this stuff think that there are only a few certain direct ways to achieve success and that simply isn’t true.

My question to you is what are your sticking points when it comes to learning game?

What are your problems with the courses and boot camps out there?

Why aren’t  you getting the success you want?

What are the problems holding you back?

Let me know.  Leave comments and feel free to email us and we will try to get back to you.

Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution

Part 17:  Sticking Points

What are sticking points:

A sticking point is going to be any part of your game that repeatedly seems to not be working.  A lot of people just starting in game have a sticking point where they can’t open.  Then they move on to the sticking point of transitioning or contact closing.

Sticking points can appear in many different places in your game.  Plateaus in game are also a common occurrence.  I see that many people in the community hit a certain skill level and then they stop developing.  This could be known as a plateau in game.  I think that plateaus and sticking points are basically the same.  They have similar symptoms in that you are not improving and getting better results.   I think that the same tactics that help avoid sticking points and removing sticking points works exactly the same with plateaus.

Dealing with Sticking points:

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When I’ve improved the fastest over the first few months it’s because I went out with the intention of working on a few very specific points. Mainly opening. Then I switched it up to vibing. Now I am at a point where I can open most nights fine and vibe indefinitely. I want to amp it up this as talked about in a my previous post on the next step I want to incorporate passions and eliciting values into each and every interaction.

Once I internalize that immediately I need to pick out new points that I can improve on and go out and test and get good with them.

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Have you ever felt that you’ve hit a plateau in your game?

For a stort time Edge and I could not open. That lasted a couple weeks. Then it was transitioning and gaining interest. Now after some discussion I feel that we have hit a different kind of road block that will require a entirely new approach.

To give you a little back ground I am mostly comfortable opening any set where the logistics are easy. Where they stand at the bar or if they are accessable. I have built myself up to talking to not all but most of the girls that I find extremely attractive. But I feel like there is a large missing Read the rest of this entry »