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153374055_e2ce6493aaI was having a conversation with some guys about the seduction community this past Saturday night.

These were guys that had read up on a bunch of material, read “The Game”, etc.  We were sharing our thoughts on the techniques mentioned in that book and a lot of the techniques that have come and gone in the seduction community.

I want to make a comment about the seduction community and how it came to be.  The seduction community started out during the late 80′s/early 90′s.  Feminism was rampant and the pendulum of political correctness had swung WAAAY over to an almost anti-male sentiment.  I feel like there are still some lingering after-effects of that time even today, but for the most part, the era of extreme male bashing and feminazism has past.

Still, it was during that time that Speed Seduction came to be.  In fact, as Neil Strauss mentions in “The Game”, that was also the time when the internet was beginning to form.  It didn’t look like the internet we know today, but nerdy kids like me can remember the days of BBS (Bulletin Board Systems), Echo-mail and Newsgroups.

This atmosphere helped form a cohesion among men wanting to improve their skills with women.  Think about it.  Men were afraid to speak frankly about wanting to be successful [Click to Continue Reading…]

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Looking at the last 18 years of trends in the seduction community

In my last post, I was discussing how I feel it is important to study material based upon its practicality and not on whether it’s the lastest trend in the community, whether you’re studing seduction / pick-up artist techniques / dating tips or anything else.

See, when some new method or school comes out, there’s always a section that discredits all of the other schools (their competition) that came before it. At the same time, a lot of those same authors acknowledge that the method they’re bashing did in fact work! “Now it worked, but…” and then they go into way that functional method is bad and needs to be abandoned.

I study this stuff for my own results, my own self-improvement. Frankly, I don’t care where I am getting the information or inspiration. If it works and helps me improve myself, then I am all for it – even if the method is “unpopular” or “outdated” by community standards.

Let’s look at some of the trends in this area of self-improvement, from the dawn of the “seduction community”:

1991 until about 2000: [Click to Continue Reading…]

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