Picking Up Girls: “Gaming without Game.”
If you want to get the girl in a closed social circle, then you’re going to want to know how to succeed with women at House Parties. The first and most important thing to know is that the classical style of pickup doesn’t work if you don’t have perfect calibration from years in the field.
Everything that is out there is geared toward bars and clubs and not closed social circles.
We have talked about the dynamics of a small social circle of friends to an entire University and how they are just a closed social circle. If you are at a venue where everyone has something in common, then the dynamics are more like a small social circle then that of a club in a giant city where no one has anything in common.
This leads us to the question how to game in closed Social Circles
House parties are very common in the world of closed social circles. I like to use “house party” as an all-encompassing term for venues in social circles. Whether they are parties, BBQ’s or get-togethers, they are all at some ones house and they are all parties. When you are at a house party the dynamic is completely different. Everyone there knows someone else and they all know the host or at the very least they all have heard of the host or they wouldn’t be there.
It’s completely different from a bar in a big city where there is an endless stream of new women. You’ve probably been out and if you frequent the same parties you will notice that they have way more ‘regulars’ than a club.
Simply the problem that comes about with ‘traditional game’ in a social circle is if you make a fool of yourself or have a really bad blow out, it’s not like you can leave and come back to the social circle again and no one will remember. It’s a closed venue and once you’re labeled, that label will follow you around even for four years at college.
This led me to really delve into the problems of social circle game and to find solutions.
The downfall of ‘traditional game’ is that you have to be really well calibrated to run it. If you’re like me, then you want the best results and you want them the first time (not the 535th time).
I went to work with the goal of cutting out all the frills and pitfalls of game and just boiling it down to what works and what is completely undetectable.
How you might ask?
I went out and studied the guys that seemed to get it; the jocks, the frat boys, the hosts of the parties. I always used to think, how did that dumb frat boy get a new, super hot girl every weekend when he could barely string a coherent sentence together?
Well after a lot of studying and 6 months of trial and error, I came to the conclusion that he really used simple core elements to get the girl. Using what we knew from being in the seduction community and studying game for years, we backward-engineered and created our own method to not only get the GIRL once, but EVERY TIME.
This is how:
By being the facilitator of fun while intelligently tweaking Social Proof and Pre-Selection.
There is a reason guys throw parties religiously and it’s not to get drunk. It’s to get laid [Click to Continue Reading…]
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When it comes to gaming without game, I want to first talk to you about building social circle game. Simple effective strategies that Edge and I discovered to create success where I had 42 girls in one room fighting over me every weekend. Doing it all without any ‘traditional game’.
Its actually extremely simple so keep reading and YOU can have girls fighting for you if you read and follow the steps in this and the next few posts on social circle game.
First off, why is a social circle, small town, or college so different from meeting women out in a big city?
Simple, there is limited number of people in a smaller environment.
When you’re in a smaller environment, you don’t have the luxury of field testing your game and learning to calibrate by approaching 5000 women. You game ‘traditionally’ and you have to get it right the first time or you run the risk of forever being labeled as the weird guy using lines like that VH1 show.
I like to think of everything from a small town, a social circle, and even a college or university as just one social circle. A small town, a college, and a university are giant social circles, but they are still social circles. I call it a closed social circle because you tend to see the same people over and over again or at least the same core people.
Whether you all go to the same school, live near each other, or have a mutual friend: there is the fact that you have something in common and that makes the world of difference when compared to doing traditional cold approaches in a large city.
This is how I think about it: When you are out at a bar or club, you can go out and practice anything you want. You have the ability to screw up and still go back to the same bar next weekend and no one from the week before will be there or if they are they certainly won’t remember you. This gives you time to practice and fine-tune your ‘game.’
Plain and simple you don’t have the luxury of testing out tactics and techniques or “warming up” in closed social circle, instead you have to go under the radar in a way people won’t even realize your ‘gaming’.
I am sure a lot of you guys have read plenty of stuff on pick-up and tried a few things here and there. You’ve probably even had a little success from time to time, but when you think about applying it in a small social setting like a social circle, a college, a small town or in a group of friends, you find that a lot of what has been written doesn’t make practical sense.
In fact, most guys say that they can’t practice “game” in the PUA-sense around people who know them for one reason or another. Maybe you feel embarrassed or scared or feel like your friends “just wouldn’t understand”. I would say that those feeling of reluctance to use classic PUA game in close company is probably a very good fear to have – if you think using traditional stuff is unusual, weird and creepy to the average person, then that’s a clue that it’s time to explore some down-to-earth alternatives.
Simply put: Most of what’s out there is geared toward meeting women at bars, clubs, and during the day in a giant city that has a huge population [Click to Continue Reading…]
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