Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution

Part 19: Qualification

What is qualification?

Qualification is a mechanism that will allow you to do two things.  The first is that it will verbally set up a screening frame where you can show that you have standards that you want a girl to live up to.  This will begin to create a frame where you are challenging the girl and she has to live up to your expectations.  It will build investment and compliance through screening questions.

The second use of qualification is to test for compliance.  Using screening questions you can easily see how invested a girl is in you by how much she will comply with your qualification.  If you qualify a girl on something simple like ‘can you cook’ and she doesn’t have enough attraction to answer you then you know you need to run more attraction.   If you try to move her or try to qualify her on what her passions and she wont answer you know your not in a rapport stage yet and you need more attraction.  If you try to sexually qualify her and she won’t comply you know you need more comfort and rapport before she will comply to your sexual screening.  If she is complying to your sexual screening then you know you can move directly to a close.

Using qualification to figure out how much compliance you have is the best way to quickly move forward in the set.

Using qualification

I think its extremely important to start using qualification Read the rest of this entry »

I know this sounds like old school advice but I found that even now I think I still do it. I Think a lot of it comes down to as men we make a snap decision on whether we would sleep with a girl or not based purely on her looks. This doesn’t give us time to screen them and we have already given some of our power away without even noticing it.

If we want to be in the position of power we must be the chooser. We must see if she lives up to our standards and then we say yes.

If we make that decision yes I’d sleep with her before talking to her and then our minds are made up and we come from a position of wanting not one of screening.

Think a lot of old-school advice has said write out what you want in a women and then screen her for those qualities. But how many of us have done Read the rest of this entry »