I used to rate interactions on how long I could stay in the conversation. I would be talking to some girl and the conversation would be meandering down some boring path, but she hadn’t walked away so I still felt I was “in”.
Kind of silly actually because inevitably the girl would be bored out of her mind and disappear.
These days, I keep pulse on this question, “How much is she reaching for more?” If she’s not reaching for more in some way, shape or form, then I am not doing my job. The best kind of interaction would be one where I’m expending minimal effort of baiting her to want more while she is reaching more and more for me. When she reaches, I would set a frame and keep escalating [Click to Continue Reading…]
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