I know this sounds like old school advice but I found that even now I think I still do it. I Think a lot of it comes down to as men we make a snap decision on whether we would sleep with a girl or not based purely on her looks. This doesn’t give us time to screen them and we have already given some of our power away without even noticing it.
If we want to be in the position of power we must be the chooser. We must see if she lives up to our standards and then we say yes.
If we make that decision yes I’d sleep with her before talking to her and then our minds are made up and we come from a position of wanting not one of screening.
Think a lot of old-school advice has said write out what you want in a women and then screen her for those qualities. But how many of us have done [Click to Continue Reading…]
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