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The following report takes place at an underground fetish party I attended a couple of months ago. I was pretty excited when I wrote it because my game had just changed and I had a major mental shift in what I believed was possible.

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Term: Scene

Definition: A staged situation where people who have previously consented set up a “show” for the participants and onlookers.

Cast of Characters:

Serendipitous: Yours truly.

Le Stat: My good buddy of 23+ years.

Dominatrix: My target.

Friend: Dominatrix’s best friend and my conspirator and wing.

CockBlock-Hopkins: The competition.

Scene 1:

A hot blonde girl has tied up her cross-dressing b/f to a stripper pole and is beating the shit out of him with a large leather whip.

Scene 2:

The hostess had carrots and celery and cucumbers and summer squash and finally, a whole eggplant inserted into her vagina and vigorously fucked until she came. I heard she later cooked and ate them. How’s that for not wasting perfectly good food?

Scene 3:

A guy locked in a pillory (“nowhere to be found!”- sorry, Megadeth lyric..) while getting his back lashed with a cat-o-nine-tails. We’re talking breaking skin here and bleeding folks. The dominatrix in this scene is the one I would [Click to Continue Reading…]

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pushpullroutineBecoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution

Part 24

Push Pull

Legend:

The Push Pull Dynamic

When I am in an interaction I like to slot everything that I can possible say and do into 2 categories.  One element of the interaction is always either a Push or a Pull. Basically where in the first instance you can say or do something that pushes someone away from you and in the second instance you can say something or do something that will pull a person toward you.   As with anything these are two polar opposites where a pull is on one end of the spectrum and push is on the other end.  Think Mr. Nice guy on one end and Mr. Dick head on the other end.  With any conversation I believe that a good balance is essential.  You need to be able to go to either end of the spectrum and pull it back with good calibration.

Push

Would be any comment or action in a pushing manor.  As if you are pushing someone away.  For example any form of teasing or not fully answering someone’s questions.   Leaving a sort of mystery about yourself or doing a take away.  Basically anything that will get them working for you.  This includes all forms of breaking in rapport.

Pull

On the flip side pull would be giving value, complements, and creating rapport.  Think positive statements and things that bring people together. Smiles and positive touching as well are pulls.

What this means [Click to Continue Reading…]

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