Some of you may not know who I am talking about, but this is the original SIN, Mystery’s wing man and Style’s original teacher. He is back and his book is awesome. If that doesn’t get you excited, nothing will. You may have noticed that I don’t usually endorse products and that’s because a lot of them are just rehashed and the same old, same old. This is different.
After being in the community for a long time, it is not often that you find a product that has more than one tiny, useful nugget of information in it. This book is filled with useful content and to my surprise it has completely new insights that no one else in the community has ever talked about before.
The book is separated into two sections: a great story line and then a following section of detailed techniques. The story section of the book is an entertaining bit of PUA history. Think “The Game” from SIN’s perspective combined with tons of real world theory. The best part about it is the mix of a story that will keep you entertained and then the game theory, which is clearly separated out into different sections for your repeated reading pleasure.
If you are an avid PUA history junkie the story part is for you. If not, keep reading.
When you get into the theory and technique (the black pages of the book), it really starts to shine. SIN’s Mirror Theory is spot on. The section about the Intent Mirror, Reaction Mirror, Empathy Mirror, and Action Mirror is amazing. I think it’s an extremely important part of underlying communication and no one in the PUA industry has ever talked about it before. It seems to me that this is the secret of why some people have success with routines and other people fall flat on their face when using them. If you have ever had this problem, I highly recommend you check out this book. SIN really delves into how the brain works and how other people perceive communication.
Later, SIN talks a lot about sexual guilt and how he thinks it’s holding people back from going after what they want. This is another great example – I can see how in our society where a man’s sexuality and need for sex is almost demonized in today’s culture (at least in the USA). It’s a very deep-rooted problem for some people and I think SIN really gets a large chunk of it handled. He puts you in the right direction to solving this problem. Once you eliminate the sexual guilt, then you are free to go after any woman unapologetically. There is nothing more attractive to a woman than a man who goes after exactly what he wants in life.
My favorite and one of the most enlightening sections of the book is SIN’s Multiple Hits Routine. Don’t let the name fool you; it’s not another line, instead it’s more of a new style of opening. Many people in the community think that you need one perfect approach. Start to finish, a straight line type of game. SIN’s basis to his game is completely different.
Why struggle walking a tight rope act where you can fall off? Instead why not fractionate your interactions with people allowing much more breathing room. I think this is the shining hallmark of SIN’s techniques. He goes into great depth explaining why and how to use multiple hits in a way that will get you in way, way under the radar, if necessary. If you thought opinion indirect game was under the radar, you should try this out. Another great part about the Multiple Hits Routine is that you can go completely direct using it and still pull it off. I can’t wait to integrate this into my game, as MHR can really work with any style of game. Who says you only need to play game in a linear fashion. This is the future.
Another part of the book that has got me excited is the sexual attraction theme of the book. A great section is SIN’s sexual teasing which is a great basis for framing an interaction. Framing everything sexual, he talks at length about it giving many examples in the form of sexual teasing. Basically framing that she is doing things that stir up deep sexual urges inside of you and it’s all her fault. SIN explains exactly how to do this in a fun playful way. This part strikes a chord with me. If you get sexual by teasing a girl and get it going on right away there is really only two places the interaction could end up. Her bed or your bed.
SIN also goes into detail about what women want and how they act in the social scene. His Tangled Web Theory is spot on. Women are screening you and setting traps for you. My friend Alexandra always tells me she gets all dolled up even to go to the pharmacy because she never knows who she might run in to. Apply that to all women and we know they want to be approached. SIN hits the nail on the head talking about female psychology in this regard and how to give women what they want. He gives a great base to build a strong comfort game.
Most importantly SIN goes into a section about Pre-Sex and After Sex Game. This is a strong point that I highly recommend. Where most books focus on the initial pickup leading to a number or to sex, SIN continues right on talking about the second meet up (Day Two). He gives advice how to keep the girl after sex based on goals and passions which is what life is really all about. This is something that really impressed me since most books leave this part completely out. He talks about having a 5 year plan. You don’t need to be there yet, but you need to have ambition and goals. This will get you the girl.
All in all, I found the book to be a great read. It’s packed with amazing tips and techniques that are really new to the community. I respect SIN’s writing, he is one of the few stand up guys in the community who actually has talent. I think you should pick up a copy of this book and read it cover to cover. Then go back and apply some of his teachings that fit with your style. The whole sexual frame is a great frame to stick to and I think many PUAs avoid it. Embrace it and the women will love you. Women always say we should stop playing games, so I say why not stop and just be blunt with them but in a tactful way. I know I need to integrate more of this into my game to really speed up my results.
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