Lately I’ve been thinking about what motivates us to take action versus what will stop us dead in our tracks. Further, I’ve been asking myself what is it that happens when we shift from one scenario to the other?
Ultimately, it’s the frame that we put on things. Which brings me to today’s subject: One man’s “rejection” is another man’s “success”.
I’ve noticed that there are some things that will happen in an interaction that will leave me feeling rejected. Yet, when they happen to Legend, he turns ON. A woman could [Click to Continue Reading…]
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meeting women,
picking up beautiful women,
rejection
Lately I’ve been thinking about a lot of the ideas and the “culture” of the so-called seduction community and I’ve decided I’m going to start sharing my impressions.
There’s an extent to which the community believes that you need to “dominate” an interaction. I don’t believe this is true (as a general rule). Whether it be plowing through resistance, calling the woman on her bullshit or negging her to “knock-down her value”, there’s an underlying theme of the “pick-up artist” to be unwilling to be vulnerable
Notice I’m talking about unwillingness, not lack of action to be vulnerable. I’m not recommending [Click to Continue Reading…]
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improving conversation skills,
picking up beautiful women,
talking to women
Lately I’ve been thinking about what motivates us to take action versus what will stop us dead in our tracks. Further, I’ve been asking myself what is it that happens when we shift from one scenario to the other?