Picking Up Girls: “Gaming without Game.”
If you want to get the girl in a closed social circle, then you’re going to want to know how to succeed with women at House Parties. The first and most important thing to know is that the classical style of pickup doesn’t work if you don’t have perfect calibration from years in the field.
Everything that is out there is geared toward bars and clubs and not closed social circles.
We have talked about the dynamics of a small social circle of friends to an entire University and how they are just a closed social circle. If you are at a venue where everyone has something in common, then the dynamics are more like a small social circle then that of a club in a giant city where no one has anything in common.
This leads us to the question how to game in closed Social Circles
House parties are very common in the world of closed social circles. I like to use “house party” as an all-encompassing term for venues in social circles. Whether they are parties, BBQ’s or get-togethers, they are all at some ones house and they are all parties. When you are at a house party the dynamic is completely different. Everyone there knows someone else and they all know the host or at the very least they all have heard of the host or they wouldn’t be there.
It’s completely different from a bar in a big city where there is an endless stream of new women. You’ve probably been out and if you frequent the same parties you will notice that they have way more ‘regulars’ than a club.
Simply the problem that comes about with ‘traditional game’ in a social circle is if you make a fool of yourself or have a really bad blow out, it’s not like you can leave and come back to the social circle again and no one will remember. It’s a closed venue and once you’re labeled, that label will follow you around even for four years at college.
This led me to really delve into the problems of social circle game and to find solutions.
The downfall of ‘traditional game’ is that you have to be really well calibrated to run it. If you’re like me, then you want the best results and you want them the first time (not the 535th time).
I went to work with the goal of cutting out all the frills and pitfalls of game and just boiling it down to what works and what is completely undetectable.
How you might ask?
I went out and studied the guys that seemed to get it; the jocks, the frat boys, the hosts of the parties. I always used to think, how did that dumb frat boy get a new, super hot girl every weekend when he could barely string a coherent sentence together?
Well after a lot of studying and 6 months of trial and error, I came to the conclusion that he really used simple core elements to get the girl. Using what we knew from being in the seduction community and studying game for years, we backward-engineered and created our own method to not only get the GIRL once, but EVERY TIME.
This is how:
By being the facilitator of fun while intelligently tweaking Social Proof and Pre-Selection.
There is a reason guys throw parties religiously and it’s not to get drunk. It’s to get laid [Click to Continue Reading…]
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