Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution
Part 29 B
Last Minute Resistance
How to deal with LMR
There are three ways that I deal with LMR.
1. Two steps forward and one step back. If I am getting heavy resistance when I am escalating I go into a two steps forward one step back mode. If you take a look at the Kino escalation ladder in the Kino chapter you can just simply follow a two step forward one back. Linger on the step you went back to then try to push forward again. Repeat until you get to where you want to go. It works.
2. The Freeze out. This is more of an extreme tactic. It works and I have done it but it is a last ditch effort and if you don’t do it correctly she will smell the reactive nature of it. Basically if you have hit a brick wall when escalating you completely stop and start doing something else.
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Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution
Part 29 Part A
Last Minute Resistance
What is LMR
I couldn’t write a Pick-up Guide without talking about LMR. Notice that NO means no and when in doubt stop. But I also want to say that sometimes No means not yet. In person there is a huge difference and it’s really easy to tell. If she is moaning and saying I barely know you or it’s too soon and she is stopping you but saying it passively. Then that means not yet. But if she is serious and says no that means no.
How to avoid LMR
Over my years of getting better and better with the opposite sex I find that I don’t really like dealing with LMR and instead I want to completely avoid it by doing two things. Sure with the right attitude you can plow through it and sometimes you need too but I think it’s much better to avoid last minute resistance. I avoid it by doing two things.
1. Comfort. The longer you spend with a girl the more comfortable she is with you. The more places and situations you are in with her the more comfortable she will be with you. Despite what the community says I believe you can be friends with a girl for a long time and still escalate it to sex provided you are an attractive male to begin with. Sure it’s nice to get there quickly but in my experience if you consistently maintain attraction either automatically or consciously then you can escalate it to sex after months of hanging out with her. Don’t get me wrong I am not saying wait when you can have sex but I am saying it’s not necessarily a race to get there.
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