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As a PUA, making the first approach is the hardest part of the outing. I think an important quality to use in any pickup is momentum. From my experiences, the more that you do, the more you want to do. At the same time, when you get on a roll you can build huge amounts of social power within yourself. You start feeling like you can do anything.

I find that when working, working out, gaming, and anything in life the more that you do the more you want to do. It’s a weird phenomenon, but it is one that works and we should use it to our advantage. I know that I have talked about it before but I want to hammer the point home over and over again in my mind. In the last three days, I’ve been blasting away at my theory on the foundational building blocks to success. I’ve been developing what I think are the key underlying principles to achieving success anywhere and I’m creating a program about it, which I’m going to give away for free to all of our readers. On that note, the more I work at it, the more I want to work at. It has also inspired me to write even more in this blog.

I think it is a human condition to really do whatever you do. So if you are not taking action and instead doing nothing, your body and mind continually wants to do nothing. If you play World of Warcraft all day and you’re comfortable doing it, that’s [Click to Continue Reading…]

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After my conversation with Legend this weekend (on the upcoming 07.26.08 audio file), I am thinking about what motivates us. My motivation has been waning in other areas of my life, mainly meditation and exercise/dieting – I want to take my motivation back.

What I realized is that the visions and conditions that I had set to motivate my actions no longer applied. Like wind coming out of my sails, I simply stopped doing the good things I was doing and even enjoyed doing after the vision I had created had come to pass.

For example, I stopped [Click to Continue Reading…]

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