Do you search the internet looking for the latest and greatest tactics, techniques, and strategies?

I always had a problem when it came to learning to be successful with women,  I spent a ton of time searching for the information that I needed and it took me for ever to find it.

This is why Edge and I are launching our Insider Interview Club.  Where every month you get an in depth audio interview or lesson on one specific topic.  That way you can become a master on that topic and know everything there is to know about it.

No more searching for the answers or spending time learning stuff that isn’t field tested.  All our stuff comes from thousands of hours of real work we did out at bars and night clubs.   Your only going to be getting tried and tested stuff that works in the real world not just off in la la land.

We just completed an almost 2 hour interview on how to approach and start conversations with beautiful women and I am currently bribing people with tons of free stuff if you test it out.  I recorded an audio all about it.

Check it out here

This Bribe only lasts till Thursday.

I think in this area of study and especially with my personal experience going from a guy who couldn’t approach to having complete comfort where ever I go, it really comes down to being about the long term process.  With all the crazy magic pill marketing it can be a little difficult to feel like you can achieve results.

The reason for this is that a lot of the “mentality” of the training and information out there sets you up to fail. I remember when I started off, I would study some tactic or technique that was supposed to get me x result, I would then go out and try it and it wouldn’t give me that result.

So in my naive state of mind I would be forced to go back to the drawing board searching for that special new technique or method that would work for me. It was endless.

What I didn’t realize at the time was that for you to experience full blown earth shattering change and transformation that it was all about baby steps.  Counter intuitive yest but the only real answer is persistent long term action.  Learn one skill at a time and become proficient at it until you can move to the next one.

This is one thing that I would advocate for you. If your stuck at a certain point in game then back up becuase the problem probably happened because of something you did before.  What you think happened isn’t the real cause. So the best bet is to start focusing on the fundamentals one at a time.

1.Get your motivation to create change down.

2. Get your goals in order so you know what to do.

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