A long time ago I brought out my rules for having a good night every night. I spent weeks whittling them down into a fool proof plan of action that would allow me to be “on” every time I followed them. Needless to say, it was a long list and I wasn’t very good at doing all of it on a consistent basis. Over time I have perfected every step on that list, but one of them.
On this trend I’ve been thinking about the fundamentals to self-improvement.
Here is my collection of ideas as I see them now to really set goals and become successful at anything. I am going to use this system to implement massive change in my actions in 2009. It took over six months for me to come up with intricacies of the system for myself, but now that I know exactly how to move forward correctly all I have to do is follow my own advice.
This is a skeletal system and going to go much more in depth in a video that I will post on the blog sometime in late February or early March. Look forward to it.
The preface to success is action.
The key to success is ACTION.
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I was talking with Legend recently and we were in a discussion about sticking points, motivation and momentum in the realm of picking up women and general self-improvement.
Every choice we make is not just a single event in a vacuum. No, every choice we make sets the direction of our momentum.
As Legend has said, the more you do something, the more you will WANT to continue doing that thing. Just to set the context, this applies to things that you know you should do to progress towards our goals, but just haven’t been doing.
Amidst the hashing, we started talking about how if we choose the good action and at least start, we’re able to keep going with it, without problem. At the same time, if we choose something counter to what will get us to our goal (e.g. playing a video game instead of going out, surfing Facebook instead of studying how to improve our game, etc.), it becomes even HARDER to pursue our goal and we’re even [Click to Continue Reading…]
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A long time ago I brought out my rules for having a good night every night. I spent weeks whittling them down into a fool proof plan of action that would allow me to be “on” every time I followed them. Needless to say, it was a long list and I wasn’t very good at doing all of it on a consistent basis. Over time I have perfected every step on that list, but one of them.