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In this world of information overload, the mind is always searching for an answer. The problem with the seduction community is that everyone thinks there is an answer. I find myself going into my head thinking what to do in a certain situation that I haven’t experienced before. In reality even though my brain searches for an answer, I cannot have an answer because I have not experienced it before. This is the hurdle that plagues us all, the uncertainty of an outcome.

The problem is this is a vicious loop. You cannot know the answer without first trying. My mind wants to search for an answer before trying, but in reality you have to try. This requires a great effort to breakout of the vicious loop. The more you learn, the more you think that you know and it traps you in the cycle of analyzation. I think the reason I was able to make so much progress in the beginning months was that I consciously knew nothing. Now that I think that I know certain things, my brain tries to fit everything into that reality when really I should just be concentrating on [Click to Continue Reading…]

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So I am driving home this past weekend with a female friend who I’m very close with. She says to me, “You think too much about this stuff. I don’t think – I just flow and everything works out for me.” Now mind you, she is straight, but this girl has got the most solid game I’ve ever seen in picking up chicks, so I enjoy talking to her about the subject.

And on the one hand she’s right. George Clooney and Brad Pitt don’t have to think about game. The guy who’s been great with women all his life… he doesn’t have to think about game.

Well guess what? I don’t have to think about playing guitar… But if I told someone who’s never played to just “not think” and play it, they would not be able to play like me.

We live in a society that attributes [Click to Continue Reading…]

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