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Get It Handled: A Reflection On Being An Effective Pick-up Artist

by Edge

in Seduction Tips

Getting good at picking up women consistently comes down to two things:  balls and strategy.

Yes, there are a ton of books about picking up women.  Yes, there are countless audio seminars, DVDs, lectures, theories, etc.

But none of that stuff matters if YOU aren’t doing anything.  None of it matters if you are overwhelmed with all the material instead of inspired and assisted by it.

The truth is, it’s good to have a baseline of understanding of women and pick-up, but very early on you need to make the commitment to stepping up and taking action.

Once you have made that commitment and you are taking action, you have to have the willingness to keep pushing beyond doing what you are used to, what you are comfortable with and what think is easy.

Simultaneously, you have to be honest with yourself.  You need to try things over and over again and honestly record what’s happening.  Then you need to [Click to Continue Reading…]

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Getting Good with Women Can Be Brutal

by Edge

in Journal

I think something great is happening here.

But before I say what it is and why, I want to make something clear: Learning to improve your dating skills with women can be a brutal process.

Let me tell you a story…

I was walking down the street last night, filled with anger, bitterness and hopelessness. I was walking with my Legend and Amp, spitting absolute venom about dating, women and the game in general.

“It’s all so unfair. I work so hard to be a good person in the world. With integrity. With loyalty. With honesty and honor.

And yet I can walk up to a girl in a bar, say something to open a dialogue with the purest of intentions and somehow in this world it’s OK for her to look at me like a piece of garbage and coldly dismiss me like I’m some sort of social parasite.

To be honest, I need to conjure every ounce of strength I have to not flip out at these implicit social insults. Who is she to judge me?”

And on and on I went, pissing and moaning about how much I hate the “game” and how annoying this all can be.

Having shattered their until-moments-ago-euphoric buzz, and Legend look at me, desperately hoping to talk me off the ledge. “Edge, you know it’s a game. Yeah, it’s bullshit at times, but it’s not like you don’t know what you’re doing. You’ve dated 7 girls at the same time! You’ve had threesomes and dated every type of girl on the checklist…”

“Yeah,” I said, “but that doesn’t mean it feels like success to me…”

OK, so what’s my point in sharing this story.

My point is [Click to Continue Reading…]

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