Seduction has a several uncomfortable moments, and the more you are capable to make those moments natural and comfortable for yourself and for girl, the more successful you will be in the end. One of those moments happens on very beginning and its: opening. Starting conversation with an unknown person. The more you are relaxed and confident into what you are doing, the more person, in this case girl or group of girls will be relaxed and happy to talk with you. There are several moments in process of seduction when you will feel that uncomfortable pressure. Be aware that if you feel that uncomfortable emotion, you can be sure she does it as well even more intensive. It all comes down to your skill of making it as smooth as possible.
The secret of best Playboys on this world is they make them feel comfortable and natural doing wild thing they would never do with any other guys.
One of crucial moments, where you will feel the biggest pressure is Closing the deal. Either getting her contact info, or going for a kiss, or taking her some and going for sex. That’s where lots of guys fail a lot, because they are not smooth enough.
Important rule to remember is that you have to keep that uncomfortable emotion inside her comfort zone. If the action you are doing is too much for her, and outside her comfort zone, she won’t be ok with doing it, and you won’t achieve anything. You will very easily be able to read how she feels through her negative body language. It doesn’t mean you failed, or you cannot do it, its just you have to find other way that will get you there by not stepping outside her comfort zone.
You should be always trying to find most comfortable way for her to give you number, to kiss you, or to take her panties off.
Kiss closes
This is one of crucial moments that you cannot miss. How many times you been on a date and everything was going perfect, and then was this time where you had to kiss her, felt it’s a time, but you were not sure, you waited, hesitated and then opportunity went away and you never got 2nd chance to kiss her. How many times that happened to you? How many times you were going home angry on yourself because you hesitated and let perfect opportunity fly away? How many girls you lost because of it?
This is one more of those moments in seduction where girl won’t do much to help you; she will be sitting there, enjoying her feeling being around you, and waiting from you to kiss her. It’s like they expect from you to read her thoughts and align your actions according to her. And that’s exactly what you have to do if you want to be good with girls. If you dedicated yourself to this game, and decide to become a good player, you will get to point where you will feel what they do feel; you will start to think as they do.
Actually, recognizing the moment when she wants to be kissed its much easier then you could ever imagined, you can actually feel it. The moment on date, when something triggers your thought to kiss her, and you start thinking should you kiss her or not that is the moment to kiss her.
Trust your instincts; they are way more experienced in seduction then your logic
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