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Part 15: IOI’s and IOD’s
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What are Indicators of Interest

In the community there are a number of indicators of interest.  These are specific things that some pick-up artists believe are cues that the girl is into you. I will list them here:

Smiling at you

Preening (tossing, twirling or combing her hair)

Scratching the top of her hand

Exposing her neck

Positioning body facing towards you

Laughing at what you’re saying

Touching you

Sucking your dick

Assuming its always on and why you shouldn’t bother paying attention to them Center Stage: Turn It Up

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Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution

Part 15: IOI’s and IOD’s

Legend:

What are Indicators of Interest

In the community there are a number of indicators of interest.  These are specific things that some pick-up artists believe are cues that the girl is into you. I will list them here:

Smiling at you

Preening (tossing, twirling or combing her hair)

Scratching the top of her hand

Exposing her neck

Positioning body facing towards you

Laughing at what you’re saying

Touching you

Sucking your dick

Assuming its always on and why you shouldn’t bother paying attention to them

I believe that is a waste of time and that you shouldn’t bother looking indicators of interest. There is only one indicator of interest that I think about. This is if the girl is talking to me then it is on. She’s not walking way and she’s talking to me, it is because she wants me Read the rest of this entry »

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As a PUA using Micro-Calibration in  Pick up is very important.   Mystery first introduced this technique and style of gaming.  I have found that on many of my sarges sometimes everything hits perfectly and sometimes it doesn’t work at all.  Have you experienced that?

Micro-calibration by some standards is very advanced but at the same time to be successful we need to apply it to the base level of all of our interactions.

Think of micro-calibration of when specifically you need to DHV or when specifically you need to punish.

I use the word punish loosely becuase although a large number of people will say that you should punish bad behavior, that in it self is reactive.   Instead I believe we should ignore bad behavior and just reward good behavior.

I think you can break everything into either IOI’s or IOD’s.  Indicators of interest or indicators of disinterest.  IOI would be anything from talking to some one to sharing value with them or asking questions in a positive way.  Indicators of disinterest would be anything from girls ignoring you to negative compliance or negative comments.

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How I interpret IOIs Indicators of Interest

One acronym that pick-up artists use is IOIs or “indicators of interest“. An IOI could be anything from a woman smiling at you to her scratching the top of her hand or playing with her hair. I could list a bunch of IOIs here, but I’m not going to.

Why? I am not going to list them here because I believe paying attention to IOIs is the wrong place to be focusing.

The only IOI that I paying attention to is: Is she still here or did she disappear?

Now this may sound extreme, but it’s true. Women know how to fake IOIs. They also know how to fake IODs (Indicators of Disinterest) to see how you’ll react. Being that you can’t always trust IOIs or IODs, it is best to not rate your interactions based on how many signs you’re getting one way or another, but rather Read the rest of this entry »

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