I believe that being a story teller is a very attractive quality in pick-up. These days people tend to boil pick up down to two sections. Natural game and Routine based game.
I have been struggling with the thought of just going natural for a long time. I tried extensively. It didn’t work well. My old natural self is not a guy that approaches or pushes the envelope. The whole “just do it” is not for me. Some people need structure.
Instead I want to have stories from my life that I can use to demonstrate value.
Not some one else’s stories, but my own. To do this, I need to create stories from my life that I can use to convey my identity. Basically to put it in less nerdish-talk, I need stories that I can use to tell people who I am.
Mystery calls this [Click to Continue Reading…]
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Grounding,
Identity,
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I’ve been thinking about this and moving toward something where I can create and use my identity as a way to attract women. I think its extremely powerful and truthful. Not many people do this. Woman are attracted to you and are going to form relationships with you. If you haven’t read this read it.
by Mystery
Mystery on Building an Identity
I read an article recently by my good buddy Thundercat that said:
“But what Mystery does, though teachable, is very much a style tailored to Mystery. He is successful at what he does because no one else can really imitate him. That’s what makes Tyler so amazing to observe. Tyler does the same things as Mystery, but WITHOUT the magic tricks. Yet he is still able to create IMMENSE value for himself. How does he do this? Well, from what I’ve gathered, his method is more relatable [Click to Continue Reading…]
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