Tonight I had a great meeting of minds with Legend. We sat down at his place and just hashed out a bunch of stuff… talked about the seduction community, about men and women, about goals and dreams, about life in general… It was a great talk.
Truth is, as I said in my previous post, I have shifted in my mentality about pick-up, the community, women and life in general. I think my last post stirred everyone up a bit and to be honest, I am happy about that. If we’ve got a site, why not shake things up? Why not make this a place where we rock the world?
With that said, I had been putting off posting for a while because posting here just wasn’t jiving with where my head is at these days. After Legend and I talked it out, the vision of this site and what I want for it popped back into focus. This is a site where we are raw. This is a site where we discuss becoming a great man (or put better, even more of a great man) who is great with women.
So in that vein, I had a thought about how I let this slide and how crappy it felt internally. I wasn’t on top [Click to Continue Reading…]
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clearing your mind,
flow state,
Getting stuff done,
motivation,
procrastination
Getting stuff done is important. I think a problem that a lot of people have, especially me, is starting a task and then before finishing it starting a different one. I find that I will come up with many different ideas and that I will want to pursue all of them. Really I should just keep an ongoing list without starting on them. Only once I have finished with the tasks that I’m already in the process of doing.
This is all about prioritizing what is important. It’s a basic life skill that I think we don’t talk about and we were never taught. Sometimes I think we can forget what we should focus on. It is a basic business principle that when you come up with an idea, take it immediately and you start taking action. You run with it all the way to completion or until you run into the ground and it doesn’t work.
I think it’s good to work on a few things at a time so that you have a diversity and variety but at the same time do not concentrate on too many things because you are then liable to spread your attention so thin that nothing will ever get done. Lately I have selected three things: Building my identity. Start small projects to make some money. Dedicate time to write in this journal blog about everything.
This gives me 3 solid things to [Click to Continue Reading…]
Tagged as:
Getting stuff done,
Prioritizing Goals,
Time management