In the first post I made on what I call “focus game“, I advocated not focusing on elements that are not helpful to the overall conversation you are having with the woman. In this post, I am going to discuss some examples and ideas on empowering areas we can be focusing on to improve our overall success with women and people in general.
I think it is a fallacy to believe that what you are thinking is private.
I am not saying that other people can read your thoughts like a psychic, but I am a strong believer that people (especially women) can pick up the vibe of what you’re thinking.
And I believe the reasons for it are subtle, but concrete (not airy-fairy woo-woo stuff).
I think all thoughts have power.
I think that a single thought can very slightly change your tonality, your facial expression, your overall delivery… and women are biologically designed to decode all of these subtle transmissions, allowing them to infer the overall jist of what’s on your mind at any given moment. Granted, women may sometimes assert that you’re thinking something that you’re not (as part of a social strategy), but generally [Click to Continue Reading…]
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