One acronym that pick-up artists use is IOIs or “indicators of interest“. An IOI could be anything from a woman smiling at you to her scratching the top of her hand or playing with her hair. I could list a bunch of IOIs here, but I’m not going to.
Why? I am not going to list them here because I believe paying attention to IOIs is the wrong place to be focusing.
The only IOI that I paying attention to is: Is she still here or did she disappear?
Now this may sound extreme, but it’s true. Women know how to fake IOIs. They also know how to fake IODs (Indicators of Disinterest) to see how you’ll react. Being that you can’t always trust IOIs or IODs, it is best to not rate your interactions based on how many signs you’re getting one way or another, but rather [Click to Continue Reading…]
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