This is an easy skill to incorporate into any style of pickup. It can be used for everything from getting makeouts to sex & everything in between. What it is, is a verbal remark that based on the feedback you receive allows you to know where you are at in the seduction, if what you said is possible for you to attempt. This info is gathered by either passive acceptance, active acceptance or non acceptance by the woman.

I’ve used this to get instant makeouts, blow jobs, bathroom pulls, car sex and just sex in general.

Her feedback is going to be crucial so pay attention to her subcommunications. Change in her facial expressions, tonality of voice, etc. She may not be saying a no (ex. We shouldn’t), but her subcommunications (tonality, eye contact, facial expressions) may say otherwise. Trust those signals.

The formula is basic. If she continues a certain action then you are going to respond in a certain way (ex. If you don’t stop looking at me like that, we’re going to end up making out)

other examples:

“If you don’t stop arousing me like that I’m going to take my pants off so you can play with my dick”

“If you guess how old I am, I’ll make out with you”

” If you make this shot (pool) I’ll kiss you”

What this is, is allowing passive or active acceptance to take its toll. ( ex. A woman may just start making out with you right away or may ask what are you waiting for)

Also if she hadn’t been thinking of making out with you or fucking you, now you’ve planted the seed.

If you get active deniance & the woman’s subcommunications are congruent, you can save yourself from staying in that set to nowhere.

My keys to success

1. Priming escalation- while making out with her pull away and tell her “what are you doing to me (as you put her hand on your cock)”

2. Must be discreet so the friends don’t know.

*Trust me you don’t want them to know. I had a situation happen to me the first bathroom pull I ever did. I got her in the bathroom and she was blowing me. Her friends came into the stall next to us, peered over the top and started telling her shit like “what are you doing? Don’t suck his dick!, etc”. Was the end of that blowjob.

3. Sexually prime for it.

Tell her something along the lines of ” If you don’t stop arousing me I’m going to take you to the bathroom and have my way with you.”

* If it’s a positive that it is on then pull her to the bathroom. If her friends are close, tell them that the two of you are going to do shot and will be right back.- Immediately pull her into a bathroom stall or guide her outside to an alleyway/park/your car.