
Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core Skills Guide by Pick-Up Evolution
Part 4:
Edge: I think a lot of guides on eye contact focus on the mechanics of eye contact itself or ways to use eye contact to be more appealing. I will touch on what I have found to be most effective, but before I do I want to talk about what I have found to be the most essential and most foundational element of eye contact.
Speaking from experience, I don’t believe that people worry about their ability to have good, attractive eye contact because they don’t know the mechanics. My belief is that the problem is that eye contact creates a feeling of anxiousness in the aspiring pick-up artist (PUA) and as a result, they reflexively avert their eyes from other people.
So what do I feel the key element is to good eye contact? I believe that element to be: Thought.
What you think and how you think about it…
It’s been said countless times across all cultures throughout time that the eyes are the window to the soul. I think a practical and effective way to interpret that is that people can catch your “vibe” when they look into your eyes.
And I believe that your vibe is made from your [Click to Continue Reading…]
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