Of course we do. We just want to be able to make the choice to have sex.

Speaking for myself, as a woman, I like sex. It’s fun and it feels good. What’s not to like. Women definitely want sex just as much as men.

I will be honest and tell you that I am a good girl who used to be very prude when I was younger. The reason i was so prude was that I was uncomfortable. Uncomfortable with boys, my body and myself. Not a good combo if I ever wanted to have a mind blowing sex life.

When I was 18 I went backpacking and safely kissed my way up the east coast until I met a very special guy who totally broke me out of my shell.

The first time we were making out he said to me “I want you to be comfortable. If I do anything that makes you nervous or uncomfortable, just slap my hand and I will stop.” I can tell you there was no hand slapping and I got very comfortable. The reason for this was because I felt that I was in charge of my sexuality. I was getting to make the choice and that alone put me at ease.

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