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Saturday night the weekend continued.

Sometime Logistics suck and this was probably the worse I have experienced in a long time.  I went down to this party downtown bringing my FB/Pivot.   Swanky apartment 20 guys 3 girls including the one I brought and man oh man one of them was super hot.  They where both wearing matching boots outside their tight jeans.  I think its the new fashion but it looks hot either way.

So I sit down.. thinking man oh man how am I going to do this.

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I position myself with my pivot on the couch where the two girls can see.  Clearly I am miles above everyone else since I have the pleasure of enjoying female company.   Either way its only a matter of time.  Especially in a party situation and not a bar.  Also I can’t fuck up because there is no one else.

Timing is everything I sit there talking to my FB for a long time.  The guy throwing the party comes over a few times and tells me I should have helped him plan it to get him more girls.   He has been to my parties where its just me, Edge and 50 girls.   Eventually the girls come and give me proximity and I open by telling them the both get the prize for having the coolest boots in the room.   Insta hook and I make them laugh and one of them sits down next to me.

Now this is how I  have been gaming lately.  I try to Read the rest of this entry »

And you may find that you will have girls chasing you around trying to sleep with you before you know it.

If any of you guys out there are still running game where you pick a target and try a sniper approach then you know sometimes it feels like you working way way way way too hard. I am trying to switch it up.

I am doing some tweaking and already seeing a huge shift.

I am making a conscious effort to completely scrap my old way of approaching a group and going after a specific girl.  It was just way to much work and focused effort.  Instead I am adopting the mentality of befriend and charm everyone.  Open everyone and charm them all then using social proof and preselection I can position myself to get the girl that I really want.

Building so much value for yourself in the room that the girl you want will already be attracted and want you before you even talk to them.

I have to credit AFC Adam for bring this to my attention.  Its amazing and all of my old game still holds true, its just how you go about opening that changes.  Also I have found that when done right attraction is already handled and its much stronger then if you just go straight into the set you want.

Friday Night:

I went Read the rest of this entry »

At the end of 2008 I came to a realization for myself. I don’t want to put so much effort into the actual pickup. Going out to a bar and chatting up complete strangers can be very difficult. Don’t get me wrong I like it and I will continue to do it, but I want to add a new facet to my game.

The thing that is so difficult about the cold approach is that each group and each new person you talked to is cold. They don’t know you and your value starts at zero. What this means is that every person that you talk to you, you must build your value up from zero and then start all over again with the next person.

This is fine and great for practice and I want to continue Read the rest of this entry »

The latest craze in pickup has been the whole idea of “bring the value”. Before it seemed that many of the tactics and techniques revolved around taking value.  More than that it was really the mindset of how you came into interaction. The mindset behind the tactics, not the tactics themselves. If you wanted to just go up to talk to a girl and react to her, fishing for that feeling of validation, then you are taking value.

The community shifted thinking that you should bring value instead. Every person that you talk to, you should make their day better by bringing value to the interaction.  Simply because you want to. I think it’s great to bring value.  It is an important concept and a great way to game but I believe that there is a third way.

The third way and what I believe to be the future is to become the value. This is more of a passive Read the rest of this entry »

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This is a little rant after my saturday night of where I want to take my game.

I am standing there and the owner of the club waltzes litterally waltzes up with 8 or so blondes 2 of the hotest ones I’ve seen all night maybe all month way hotter then the dancers or the bartenders. They run off to closed off vip table and I am just thinking to myself how on earth can I get those girls.

I am looking around huge dance club they have the music up louder then normal I can’t think let alone hear myself yell. And I keep thinking I need to learn dance floor game and I try to no avail. I get the IOIs and girls dancing near me just becuase of the way I am dressed but I can;t pull the trigger. Even still if I did what next?

I want to be that guy who rolls with the girls has them coming up to me and trying to get Read the rest of this entry »