Mystery’s approach to gaming is very inspiring. One of the major elements to his game that I want to integrate into myself is the ability to think of everything as practice. Somehow to detach my ego from each individual interaction.
If you look at everything scientifically, almost like a social experiment, you can remove the rejection element. I believe in fully embracing rejection on one side, but at the same time there must be a way to look at everything as just practice. Get rid of the whole rejection frame. This will allow us to really go after the girl that we really want. We are all here to develop a skill set. Once I integrate this, everything will be much easier. I believe the key to it is detaching your EGO from each and every interaction. This will allow us to really pull ourselves back out of the interaction and at the same time push each interaction without the outcome weighing on us.
If you go up to a girl and it doesn’t [Click to Continue Reading…]
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Embracing rejection is a key concept I haven’t fully wrapped my head around, but I want to. I find myself being able to open almost anything, except the girls I really really want. If it’s an easy set and there won’t be a blow out I will go for it. In the past couple of weeks, I’ve had no problem doing mixed sets and doing frankly whatever I want except the ones that I really am super attracted to. I think this stems from not having an abundance mindset because every night I go out it seems like there is only one girl all night that I really really want.
The problem with this is that I don’t practice going after the one I want because I’m afraid that it won’t work, but in reality it will never work if I don’t try. This is clearly only an internal struggle with myself that I must overcome and master. I am in it to get the best. Bar none.
No one can do this for me, just like I cannot do it for any of you [Click to Continue Reading…]
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