Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution
Part 19: Eliciting Values
What is Eliciting Values
Eliciting a persons values originates from NLP and Speed Seduction. Basically what you are trying to accomplish is that you find out what is important to a person. What really makes them tick and then you can connect with them through what ever quality they look for.
How to Elicit Values
You can Elicit values in many ways but I like to keep it simple and talk to girls by starting off slow finding out what they like to do and then transitioning into what they are really passionate about in their lives. Once you do that you can connect on their feelings surround what ever topic you are talking about. The classic community line from Style is:
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Recently through out many of my interactions I feel confident in opening and transitioning most of the time then I go into vibing. I can vibe with a single girl or a group of girls and we both can keep the conversation going for over an hour even in a high energy loud venue. A month ago I couldn’t do this at all but now it goes.
The main sticking point I find in this and I’ve been talking with Edge a lot about it is the fact that it feels like I am pulling at strings trying to find common ground. Not forcing it in anyway but lets just say trying to really connect with some one on stuff.
I’ve noticed I just vibe off the club and what people do for fun and what they do for work. This is a fun social vibe but it doesn’t have a huge draw. Its just fun but not oh my god you are the coolest person fun.
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