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I think Opie & Anthony’s radio show is some of the best entertainment out there right now. And the reason that I’m bringing their show up here on Pick-up Evolution is that they coined a term that is essential to understand when it comes to picking up beautiful women.

The term? “Douche Chill”. The douche chill is the feeling you get when someone comes off sounding like a complete douche. Simple enough.

More specifically, it’s the creepy feeling you get when someone is saying something that’s phony, fake or sweetened. It’s the gut-feeling you get when you know someone is full of shit or when a movie plot is ripe with agenda. It is what the “seduction community” (guys who study picking up women like a science) calls incongruity. And it’s what certain subcultures call not being “real”.

In general, acting in a way that gives people douche chills is bad for your social dealings (people will not trust you and, by extension, won’t respect you), but it is MURDER to your romantic interactions.

Trust (and by extension, respect) is an essential part of being able to pick-up a woman. I’m not talking about having good intentions. We all have “good intentions”.

I’m talking about trust on that instinctual level, where you [Click to Continue Reading…]

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