Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution
Part 30
Inner Game and Confidence
The secret to good Inner game
The secret to getting amazing good inner game is that there is no secret. What inner game comes down to for me is forming new beliefs inside your mind. Beliefs such as having abundance with women and having true confidence in your skill that you can get any woman you want. This only happens from going out and practicing until you have enough experience that your internal thought patterns change. There is no short cut.
Creating Long Lasting confidence
Everyone always asks how you do it. It’s really quite simple but extremely time consuming. You have to flood your subconscious with new experiences where everything works with women. Think about it. If you have had bad experiences for five, ten, or twenty years trying to figure women out then you have to un do all of that internal conditioning. This takes time. The only way to really get good at something and truly believe you are good at it is to practice and reinforce that you are good. Once you have enough experiences it will click and you will see the light. It is easy because it’s simple but it requires great commitment. You won’t get there over night but I promise if you stick with it eventually you will get there.
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I’ve been working on inner confidence extensively lately and its brought up some major issues. Mostly around internal mentalities on how I think society conditions us to think about success. Always affirming that one day we will be successful rock stars with out any work.
I’ve found in business and especially in self-improvement most people want others to take responsibility for their situation or their own personal self-improvement. Even I see myself doing it. Especially in the past putting my own in-action and blame on other people. Be it for motivation or having other people prod me to take action. I think especially in the community everyone is looking for a quick fix or some one to solve their problems.
People want some one else to hold them accountable, force them to go out, force them to talk to strangers, or get them going on a new project.
Coach them through every step of the way. I see this over and over again. Only now do I see that I do it to an extent to. The first step to solving this I think is to realize its going on and to take full responsibility for yourself.
Sure its nice to have a wing man to force you into sets.
Sure its nice to have a buddy calling you up and dragging you out.
Sure its nice to have a specified path to follow to get where you want.
BUT
When it comes down to is actually doing it and doing it for yourself. You can be shown the way but it comes down to taking your own steps. BY YOUR SELF. Your guru can show you the door and point you in the right direction but what it comes down to is ONLY you can do it. This is your life! Your wing man won’t always be their for you. This paragraph won’t always be in front of you to motivate you.
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