So recently I’ve written about rewriting some of my old posts because I felt they were off-putting. One of the things I like to do when something feels “wrong” is to distill what it is that seems to be causing that feeling.
What I think was off-putting about some of the things I had written is that it conveyed a mentality of one-up-manship. It implied that I felt I was better than someone else or that I overtook someone else in some way – whether it was the girl, my peer group or guys in general.
And when I read these phrases, I would think to myself, “Fuck that guy… oh wait, I wrote that!” Oops. It was as if what I was saying [Click to Continue Reading…]
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