Today, it is harder to find someone without a cell phone than it is to hunt for sharks on land. They have become our lifelines, our connection to the world. While the advancements in technology have had many benefits, they have also created new fears and social definitions when it comes to traditional communication. Lately, it seems that cell phones have squashed many social graces and created a new way for people to communicate.
When it comes to meeting and dating members of the opposite sex, however, some elements of tradition should be maintained. The myth exists that women want extravagance and luxury, but you will be surprised to find how far you can go with a little respect and chivalrous behavior. The woman of today has focused on her career, and as a result, can often support herself financially. The last things she wants is a man to spoil her and make her feel like an item that can be bought off of a shelf; however, the woman of today does want to feel like a lady. A great place to start treating a woman like a lady pertains to the phone.
Now, this is not going to be a how-to that guides you from the start. This is assuming you have already approached and struck up a conversation with someone you are interested in. Maybe you met her at a bar, or coffee shop or even the park. Pay attention to her body language and look for signs that she is interested. Is she smiling a lot? When she makes eye contact, does she hold her head down and look up at you? Has she playfully and lightly touched your arm? Finally and most importantly, does she seem reluctant to end the conversation when it is clearly time to leave? If you are interested in her and if she is displaying these behaviors, which tend to come naturally when one person is attracted to another, you may ask her for her phone number. This is when the “Cell Phone Dating Rules” begin.
The initial meeting…
Do: Call her phone immediately
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