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Legend – What are YOUR Sticking points?

by Legend

in General

sticking-pointBefore I really got a handle on my personal success with women, I used to have a few glaring sticking points when it game to learning “game.” I wanted to talk about them to give you guys an idea of where I came from and what I had to break through to start achieving success.

At first I think because of the ‘marketing’ in the pickup community I was always searching and studying products for that “perfect” way to get girls. This led me always to be searching for something that I felt would fit my personality instead of going and figuring out what works for me in real life.  This plagued me for a long time until I decided to scrap everything and build up what I knew from the ground up.

Another one of my huge sticking points when I started was the fact that a lot of the stuff out there on pick-up seemed really flashy. I didn’t live in down town LA and there certainly weren’t a lot of bleach blonde actresses I could go around negging.  Simply put I couldn’t’ relate to a lot of the guys out there teaching this stuff.   Being all natural with out a solid game plan didn’t help either.

Sure it all sounded good on paper and I read all about these amazing success stories but a lot of it didn’t really fit into my life.  It didn’t seem real to an average everyday guy.  I was just an electrical engineer not a flashy club guy.  Nor did I ever want to become a flashy PUAHHHH.

The tipping point. I met Edge and we really decided to scrap everything and start over.  Build our own version of success biased on the principles of what worked.  Not what worked for other people but the principles behind what they where doing.  We started to look at what worked and talked about why it did.   We backwards engineered it and started from ground zero.  This allowed us to create a way to study for ourselves that made it so we could create our own personal way to game.  Not any guru’s way but our own. We did and let me tell you although Edge and I went through all the same steps we created for ourselves we ended up in two different places.

We both achieved success in our own ways and game completely differently.

My point is there is no right way and everyone wants something different but still all the people out there teaching this stuff think that there are only a few certain direct ways to achieve success and that simply isn’t true.

My question to you is what are your sticking points when it comes to learning game?

What are your problems with the courses and boot camps out there?

Why aren’t  you getting the success you want?

What are the problems holding you back?

Let me know.  Leave comments and feel free to email us and we will try to get back to you.

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Legend – Commitment: Most People are not Reliable

by Legend

in Journal

inner-gameLately I am trying to live by this:

“When things are going there best its time to work harder or your success will slowly fade away.”

It seems over the years that everyone I’ve met has visions and dreams but 50% of them never take action on them.  Then there is  the other 49% that do manage to pull themselves away from the TV and their daily routine but they seem to quit before they reach the finish line.  I say this with a caveat that the  finish line is a loose term becuase once you reach a certain level of success you must put on going effort into it but most people abandon future development.  They settle for good results when, if they pushed just a little father they could achieve greatness.  They shift their believes so they don’t have to follow through on their commitments.  They start to tell themselves stories about why it isn’t for them and go off to invest time into another project which they never finish.

Take this niche that we are in. Self-development geared toward becoming better with women.  Everyone and I mean EVERYONE I’ve been out with or met has achieved some level of results BUT they have all stopped once they are great with out fully pushing themselves to super stardom.  They hit a certain level of success and then they think its over or its handled.  They walk away with out finishing what they started.  Whether it be for something else or becuase they have some internal issues surrounding whats really going on.

I think it takes a special commitment to yourself and to no  one else to reach that next level.  Most people go through different phases in their lives.  They think they want something but then inside they fully never come to terms with it.  They invest years upon years into something and they turn their backs  with out following through.  This is a common thread I see everywhere.

In my opinion it all comes down to internal barriers. Whether it be fear of society excepting you or fear of what your parents might think.   Even worse internal fear of truly actualizing your dreams. Something inside holds you back and then you make up reasons in your mind to shift your attention.  You tell yourselves a story why what you set out to do no longer aligns with your core.

Sure I agree with those who have true value changes but for the most part everyone seems to just get better at telling themselves elaborate stories instead of facing your fear.

I strongly believe that to be truly at piece with yourself you need to conquer your fears.  I don’t think you can ever be fulfilled completely if you don’t.  Turing your back on it only embeds deeper problems that will surface later.   Hell if you set out to do it in the first place it must have been something you wanted.  If you can’t handle the fire you should not have wasted all the time playing in it to begin with. [Click to Continue Reading…]

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