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Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution

Part 6: Overcoming AA

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Overcoming Approach Anxiety

Permanently overcoming approach anxiety comes down to progressively desensitizing ourselves to the approach. It will take a lot of work and many approaches, but I believe we can get there just like we can conquer any fear.

Dealing with approach anxiety in the field is only accomplished by pushing through the fear. Once we take action and start to approach it becomes much easier. Using tactics like immediately approaching the first group you see when you enter a venue and utilizing Mystery’s 3 second rule (where you see the girl you want and you immediately approach her, within 3 seconds) will help you immensely with approach anxiety.

If you follow the rule of always being in set (that is, always being in a conversation with people), even if you’re only talking to guys, as long as you are talkative and pushing forward you’ll avoid a lot of anxiety.

My simple advice: Act before you can think yourself out of taking action. Hesitation kills motivation.

Bottom line the more that you practice and gain reference experiences, the easier it will become.

Edge:

Getting Over Approach Anxiety Through Visualization

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