Posts Tagged “Approach Axiety”

How do you face your fears?

I wish I had the answer.

As a man we have to face our fears and above all in this game face uncertainty. We have to become comfortable with uncertainty and going with our instincts. I believe that this is a core, fundamental value to every man. Until you do this, I believe that you will still be a child in a man’s body.

This takes a strong will and a dedicated individual. I do not believe that this is easy. It is what separates us, the spectators and the people who take action, the leaders and the followers. There is an old saying that the people who know how always work for the people that know why. I believe that in this game everything rests on why because if you’re reading this you already know how. It just comes down to the question: “I am man enough?”

I think that really boils down to why.

This is purely an inner game topic. This is the point where … [Click Here to Read Post] »

I think that fear is something important and I want to talk about it.

With the girls that I want the most, the approach still scares me. I know that once I go I will bring all of my skills to the table, but lately the initial jump has been too hard on certain groups where I am really attracted to a girl.

I think it comes down to a fear of screwing it up. I have to look at it with … [Click Here to Read Post] »