I sincerely believe the #1 cause of under-achievement and lack of success with women is not approaching or interacting with women enough.
Here are 3 excuses that we all have at least once in our lives which is used for not approaching:
“I don’t know what to say”
“I’m afraid”
“It was the wrong context” (or logistic excuse: she was seated, she was on the phone, a friend came just before I approached, I don’t have the time etc…)
But, I can say for sure that it has NOTHING to do with any of these.
You see, the reason as to why you’re not approaching is simply that you don’t have any INTEGRITY. Yes, no integrity, zero, nada.
I can hear you saying: “But DRH, I’m an honest and moral person and by the way what does it have to do anyway with pick-ups?”
Everything, my friend.
Let me explain. [Click to Continue Reading…]
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Go out ALONE and decide that you are not going to drink for that night. NO MATTER WHAT!
What this does is it throws you in a situation where you can’t use needing to get another drink as a reason not to approach. By not drinking you won’t be numb to your inner feelings and thoughts. Also if you don’t start approaching you will start feeling uneasy because you are ALONE. This leads you to run into one of two realities.
1. Out of pain (the uneasiness you feel) you will start approaching people to get out of that state. You will notice the more people you talk to the more social you will feel. You should start feeling an excitement adrenaline energy rush. It’ll be like a drug and you’ll have an awesome night.
or
2. Out of pain (the same uneasiness) you’ll give into it and go home to alleviate that pain.
Ultimately the choice is yours, but the truth in it is if you man up and have courage, it becomes easy to achieve outcome #1.
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