Pick-up Evolution

What’s Worked For Me

Most girls at rock shows are what I call ‘coat racks’, because they’re holding their boyfriends jacket or whatever. Most of them aren’t really into the band. They are typically NOT worth gaming because they are babysitting for their baggage.

Then there are some girls that are there for the band; some of these girls have bf’s there, some don’t. The bf’s who are there generally aren’t into the band but they make sure they ‘display ownership’ of their female.

There aren’t usually a lot of single girls at metal shows.

There are different methods for different size venues. I’ll start with the small ones.

SMALL VENUES – Attendance 100-500

It’s usually best to go to rock/indie rock shows because band members girlfriends will bring their friends to the show, and they’ll be groups of girls around the venue. They typically go out to smoke a lot (something I hate) but it’s a chance to talk to them without the interruption of shitty music. (I’ve heard hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of local bands in my time.. I actually like less than 5 of them.)

It’s not like night game at a club either, you work the room differently. Make a first pass through and get to know everyone who’s there, figure out who’s single and who’s not, and who’s there with who. Run enough attraction so they want to continue talking but leave on the high point. I never run kino at this point either. Ever.

Sometimes you can connect with a girl if she’s rocking out to the band by pretending to be into them too. I usually leave those moments alone and connect with them again later when we can talk.

After you’ve got a target picked out, run comfort during the set changes, contact close and kino if you’re hitting it off. Don’t go for a kiss or a make out because it makes things weird.

You can only move girls a few places: Bar, in front of stage, table, outside. Sometimes you can move her somewhere to eat close by, but unless she’s been drinking or you have really, really tight game and she’s really really into, you’re not going to be leaving the club with her and you’re better off setting up a Day 2. Bathroom pulls are close to nil because of the size of the place and her friends are 20 feet away from the stall.

MEDIUM VENUES – Attendance = 1000 – 2000

Because of the larger attendance, there will be more single girls, though they’re usually found with another girl. Usually they’ve come together so pulling one of them from the venue isn’t going to happen, and unless you live nearby or there is something open after the show, not much else will be happening either.

There are typically more places to move because the venue is larger. Balcony, table, crowd, bar, bathroom, near the sound booth, food area, lobby, second stage, outside (make sure you can get back in).

The real action is in the crowd. Girls who are crowd surfing are fair game to grope. If they didn’t want guys hands all over them they wouldn’t be up there. (At one show this girl came over my head 3 times, each time I groped her crotch through her pants. She kept looking at me from above and I just winked and smiled at her. Eventually she came and found me and it was all over…)

If you find a girl and can get her attention, the crowd is the place to be. You can get sexual with them fairly quickly sometimes and it’s possible to finger her and maybe get your dick in her if the crowd is thick enough and you’ve worked her up pretty good..

You can pull solitary girls to your/her car in the parking garage. Make sure the show is close to over or that you can get back in to the show. You don’t want to be pulling as the concert is letting out because all the other chodes who parked near the car you’re fucking in will be knocking on your windows and that’s gonna kill the mood. Or it could heighten it, that depends on how kinky she is and how confident you are.

Bathroom pulls are likely but they usually have security checking them frequently. Cops are usually on staff too, so they can be there pretty fast if you happened to get caught.

LARGE VENUES – Attendance = Several Thousand – Tens of Thousands

At larger festivals (Ozzfest, Vans Warped Tour, Locobazooka) girls are fucking everywhere! You have all day to sarge and you only need 10-15 minutes with each girl to get a solid number to follow up on.

It depends on which venue you’re at (Tsongas Arena vs Comcast Center) but again, the crowd is where you’re most likely to get some action. People around you know what’s going on, some will watch, others will ignore you. Whatever. Male or female, they secretly wish it was them.

Outside venues will have port-o-potties that you can utilize (it smells but at least the two of you can lock everyone else out). You can sometimes find a nook or cranny or bush to hide in.

Again, I don’t recommend the parking lot unless she’s kinky and you’re confident. Cops are definitely on staff and security is everywhere.

If you have any other experiences, I’d like to hear them.

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