Serendipitous – Getting into State Part 1

Theory for Getting Into State: From Introvert to Extrovert

There are a few concepts that I want to discuss that I haven’t heard talked about before. Hopefully this is original and not entirely heard before, though some of it will be.

2 Kinds of State: Introvert and Extrovert When people are alone they are in Introvert Mode, they are thinking in their heads and in their own universe. When people are with another person or other people, most often they are in Extrovert Mode and are sharing ideas or communicating feelings. We are naturally in some stage of either Introvert or Extrovert at any given time, and we naturally shift from one mode to the other without thinking about it or making any kind of effort. But there are some people out there who have a hard time talking to other people, or, going from Introvert Mode to Extrovert Mode. I’m going to discuss 2 different views. First will be about ourselves and second will be about other people. Let’s begin.

You – From Introvert to Extrovert Most of us are alone before we go out, so what we need to do is go from introvert to extrovert, which is very simple. You start by opening strangers. They don’t have to be girls we are attracted to, they can be anybody you cross paths with. The more people you open and the more positive interactions you have with people, and the more you cross from introvert to extrovert, the closer you come to being in state. I’ll describe state simply as fully enjoying a positive experience while completely in extrovert mode. Sometimes we meet up with friends and may be part of an Introverted Group. An Introverted Group are people who are all talking together and are almost completely oblivious to what’s going on around them; they’ve locked other people out of their circle. I’ll discuss this more later. When you are in extrovert mode, opening is easy and you are perceived as being high value, or at least have enough to continue talking to. Now let’s apply this to other people.

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