Of course we do. We just want to be able to make the choice to have sex.
Speaking for myself, as a woman, I like sex. It’s fun and it feels good. What’s not to like. Women definitely want sex just as much as men.
I will be honest and tell you that I am a good girl who used to be very prude when I was younger. The reason i was so prude was that I was uncomfortable. Uncomfortable with boys, my body and myself. Not a good combo if I ever wanted to have a mind blowing sex life.
When I was 18 I went backpacking and safely kissed my way up the east coast until I met a very special guy who totally broke me out of my shell.
The first time we were making out he said to me “I want you to be comfortable. If I do anything that makes you nervous or uncomfortable, just slap my hand and I will stop.” I can tell you there was no hand slapping and I got very comfortable. The reason for this was because I felt that I was in charge of my sexuality. I was getting to make the choice and that alone put me at ease.
Women want sex. Women want to be sexual. Women want to be sexy and women want to live out crazy sexual fantasies but they need to feel safe and secure.
They want to know that they are the ones making the choice and not being forced or pushed into being sexual. I never want to feel judged or pressured. I don’t want to be tossed in the slut category and therefore I am very conscious of who I give my sexuality to.
Women want to be unlocked. Trust me. Even the purest of pure want an adventure.
As men, you can give women a safe place to be sexual. Just like my backpacking friend did for me.
Next time you are getting intimate with a woman, try his move and I promise you will get great results.
Marni
The Wing Girl Method
www.winggirlmethod.com
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hey Marni,
Thanks for sharing such an intimate story. It really resonated with me.
It’s a bit of a balance for guys. I love when guys lead very dominantly, but at the end of the day, like you, I still need to feel it was my choice. I don’t want to feel like I just gave in to an aggressive guy.
That’s why I love the story you told. The guy was obviously leading but also compassionate toward how you were feeling. Sounds really romantic
Love,
Erika