Legend – Turning Game On and Off

After my last post this brings me to a question of game mode. Is game something that you turn on and off?

Should it be?

I don’t think so, but the way many of us practice it and designate time for it, it becomes an on and off switch. I think this leads to a bad habit. Although a better habit than not approaching at all, I believe it can stunt your development in getting the girl of your dreams. Things in your mind may tell you, it’s not the right situation to approach girls or some other limiting belief.

I think this lies in the frame that your mind puts on interactions. If you frame it as going out to pick up girls or going out to seduce them or get their numbers, then society has put that into a negative context. Even if you don’t realize it, I think it’s important to think about now. This in itself induces a predatory frame. An underlying frame of needing something and taking something.

I believe we should reframe it as just becoming a friendly guy who talks to everyone. Light-hearted conversation anytime, anywhere with a screening qualification frame. This will allow you to remove any negative context. You’re just a social guy making friends and brightening up people’s days.

Then when you’re talking to a girl and you actually like her for a genuine reason, even if it’s just her vibe or her feminine energy that turns you on, you can express that and it flows naturally.

I believe this is the key to reframe your actions and thus help eliminate AA and just make everything more natural.

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