Mystery’s approach to gaming is very inspiring. One of the major elements to his game that I want to integrate into myself is the ability to think of everything as practice. Somehow to detach my ego from each individual interaction.
If you look at everything scientifically, almost like a social experiment, you can remove the rejection element. I believe in fully embracing rejection on one side, but at the same time there must be a way to look at everything as just practice. Get rid of the whole rejection frame. This will allow us to really go after the girl that we really want. We are all here to develop a skill set. Once I integrate this, everything will be much easier. I believe the key to it is detaching your EGO from each and every interaction. This will allow us to really pull ourselves back out of the interaction and at the same time push each interaction without the outcome weighing on us.
If you go up to a girl and it doesn’t go well and you feel that it is a reflection on yourself, then it’s going to hurt your ego. On the other side, if you look at it is an experiment with your stories and how you deliver them, then really if you get rejected then it’s just your sales pitch that got rejected.
I don’t like the word rejected. It implies a negative connotation. I think the key is to embrace rejection wholeheartedly, but at the same time look at everything as practice. Just another set where you are trying to figure out how your game works.
I really want to get into refraiming rejection, so it doesn’t have a negative connotation.
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