Have you ever felt that you’ve hit a plateau in your game?
For a stort time Edge and I could not open. That lasted a couple weeks. Then it was transitioning and gaining interest. Now after some discussion I feel that we have hit a different kind of road block that will require a entirely new approach.
To give you a little back ground I am mostly comfortable opening any set where the logistics are easy. Where they stand at the bar or if they are accessable. I have built myself up to talking to not all but most of the girls that I find extremely attractive. But I feel like there is a large missing part.
I need the next step. Granted I have no problem doing what I am doing until I am even better at it but the plan is to go all out. I am searching for the next step. If you can relate to this in anyway comment away.
I think the next step is an Identity based game that involves using the entire room to leverage what I want. Right now I am good at opening most sets and getting a number if the girl interests me. Most of the time they do not. I spent a huge portion of the other night gaming the bartender. You can listen to the 8.8.2008 audio for a description. She was really the only girl in the whole bar that I wanted.
My goal is to create a strong Identity based game which I will talk about in another post coming soon. Another goal in the next step is really leveraging social proof and using the entire room. Social circle game and what not.
I feel capable of walking up to a group of girls but that is too easy, I want the one that is in the locked off vip section or behind the bar. This game must be played in logistics. I want to create a vibe in the entire room not just a single group. A vibe that I am someone famous and important. I want to bring my game to another level bring in the social circle aspect because set by set is a lot of work with not a lot of pay off.
Take the scenario where there is one super hot girl in the club right now my current game I only have the option of going up to her and running the set if it works it works if it doesn’t I am screwed. The next level I feel is concentrating on playing the room so she wants be before I even approach her group.
That is my goal. What are your thoughts?
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Good post.
I’m working on a new personal development course which looks promising. One idea that I’ve received from the course is how there are different levels of “knowing” something.
For example, we know a lot of stuff in this game and have some field experience with it.
But I think we can also move towards the next level by not just expanding our approach outward (horizontally), but also drilling down deeper into what we already “know”.
I am going to make an effort to contemplate this game deeper this weekend and see what comes out of it. Contemplate what it is to be attractive, charismatic, high value, etc.
In the spirit of the law of attraction, I think that we have been focused on “getting there” and the feeling of wanting… I think part of the different approach will be living in the feeling of having it. What does it feel like to have the identity? What does it feel like to have an abundant amount of the hottest girls IN your life, right now? My experiment will be living in that feeling.
Damn, I just wrote a post, haha. Whoops.