As a PUA, making the first approach is the hardest part of the outing. I think an important quality to use in any pickup is momentum. From my experiences, the more that you do, the more you want to do. At the same time, when you get on a roll you can build huge amounts of social power within yourself. You start feeling like you can do anything.
I find that when working, working out, gaming, and anything in life the more that you do the more you want to do. It’s a weird phenomenon, but it is one that works and we should use it to our advantage. I know that I have talked about it before but I want to hammer the point home over and over again in my mind. In the last three days, I’ve been blasting away at my theory on the foundational building blocks to success. I’ve been developing what I think are the key underlying principles to achieving success anywhere and I’m creating a program about it, which I’m going to give away for free to all of our readers. On that note, the more I work at it, the more I want to work at. It has also inspired me to write even more in this blog.
I think it is a human condition to really do whatever you do. So if you are not taking action and instead doing nothing, your body and mind continually wants to do nothing. If you play World of Warcraft all day and you’re comfortable doing it, that’s all you will want to do all day.
My goal is to create massive amounts of momentum on in my business, my fitness, and love life. These are the fundamental pillars to happiness, I believe.
It all comes down to the more we work at it the more we will work it. The other night I was having trouble approaching and to break out of it I started to build momentum by opening guys and girls with extremely simple things and ejecting. Once I had done that about 5 to 7 times I started to really open up and I got the flow going. Then I got into a great conversation with a super hot girl and got her number.
This illustrated to me that you have to break out of the routine you’re in and start building momentum little bit by little bit. Then you build up to bigger chunks, but you have to do it quickly to maintain momentum.
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