As a PUA using Micro-Calibration in Pick up is very important. Mystery first introduced this technique and style of gaming. I have found that on many of my sarges sometimes everything hits perfectly and sometimes it doesn’t work at all. Have you experienced that?
Micro-calibration by some standards is very advanced but at the same time to be successful we need to apply it to the base level of all of our interactions.
Think of micro-calibration of when specifically you need to DHV or when specifically you need to punish.
I use the word punish loosely becuase although a large number of people will say that you should punish bad behavior, that in it self is reactive. Instead I believe we should ignore bad behavior and just reward good behavior.
I think you can break everything into either IOI’s or IOD’s. Indicators of interest or indicators of disinterest. IOI would be anything from talking to some one to sharing value with them or asking questions in a positive way. Indicators of disinterest would be anything from girls ignoring you to negative compliance or negative comments.
I think there is a time to use IOD’s toward a girl if she is ingoring you beucase when they give you no response it is worse then if they love you or hate you.
A simplified micro-calibration version is basically if she is giving you IOI’s you give her IOI’s spiced with IOD’s as intermittent rewarding which will lead toward compliance.
If she gives you an IOD return with an IOD then follow it will an IOI giving her a chance to redeem herself. This is important.
1. HB: IOI -> PUA: IOI or IOD -> Repeat
2. HB: IOD -> PUA: IOD then IOI -> Go to option 1
This just gives you a flow chart to work conversation in a base level. Remeber don’t punish good behavior ever.
Don’t ever punish good behavior.
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