Night Two:
Saturday night the weekend continued.
Sometime Logistics suck and this was probably the worse I have experienced in a long time. I went down to this party downtown bringing my FB/Pivot. Swanky apartment 20 guys 3 girls including the one I brought and man oh man one of them was super hot. They where both wearing matching boots outside their tight jeans. I think its the new fashion but it looks hot either way.
So I sit down.. thinking man oh man how am I going to do this.
Social Proof Power
I position myself with my pivot on the couch where the two girls can see. Clearly I am miles above everyone else since I have the pleasure of enjoying female company. Either way its only a matter of time. Especially in a party situation and not a bar. Also I can’t fuck up because there is no one else.
Timing is everything I sit there talking to my FB for a long time. The guy throwing the party comes over a few times and tells me I should have helped him plan it to get him more girls. He has been to my parties where its just me, Edge and 50 girls. Eventually the girls come and give me proximity and I open by telling them the both get the prize for having the coolest boots in the room. Insta hook and I make them laugh and one of them sits down next to me.
Now this is how I have been gaming lately. I try to talk about how every other guy is clueless compared to me and also I am starting to talk about sex. I don’t really know what I am doing yet but what ever it is its working. After awhile they both sit down and we talk for like an hour. They start telling me that the other guys are not even competition for me.
Unfortunately even though this girl is super hot, she is dumb as a door nob. The best way for me to describe it is almost like a vally girl. I number close both of them maybe I will take them out with me for social proof.
Girls notice everything because although I have been captivated in the corner with the only 3 girls around me at the whole place a few more have trickled in. Social Proof is power because now I am getting ready to leave and go home and screw my FB 2 new girls open me. One of them is mildly interesting and we are talking about sex right off the bat. She was kinda cute and it was in the bag but she didn’t half live up to my standards of tall, skinny, super hot and INTELLIGENT and I don’t really care about putting more notches on my belt actually I would rather not and I am definitely going to already get laid tonight so I take off.
What I learned:
Using social proof and jealous for building attraction is insanely powerful. I think I may over use it but I like going to excess. The probably is sometime I really feel I build way too much value for myself and some girls can’t handle it. They don’t think they are good enough. This leaves me with two things I can do. Much more qualification or simply just wait for the girls that will naturally live up to my standards. I already do tons of qualification but as with anything when implementing something new I need to calibrate it.
Thoughts?
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Your social proof is powerful but it’s not that that really intimidates them. It’s you.
You said yourself that you hold women to high standards and those who don’t meet them pretty much don’t have a chance at this point. You exude that not only through qualification but through body language and the ease in which you are able to talk to these women.
You also had the benefit of knowing that you were going to have guaranteed sex in your head as well.
You really had NOTHING to lose for that particular night. But I like your style. It’s not just about that night for you. You can always establish good rapport for future interactions.
You left there at the peak and like a champ.
Your social proof is powerful but it’s not that that really intimidates them. It’s you.
You said yourself that you hold women to high standards and those who don’t meet them pretty much don’t have a chance at this point. You exude that not only through qualification but through body language and the ease in which you are able to talk to these women.
You also had the benefit of knowing that you were going to have guaranteed sex in your head as well.
You really had NOTHING to lose for that particular night. But I like your style. It’s not just about that night for you. You can always establish good rapport for future interactions.
You left there at the peak and like a champ.
Yeah… the better I get the harder it is for some girls to keep up but as I evolve I don’t want them anymore anyway. Have to search out the good ones.
Yeah… the better I get the harder it is for some girls to keep up but as I evolve I don’t want them anymore anyway. Have to search out the good ones.
Man..I hope to be up there at the peak with you someday! haha
Man..I hope to be up there at the peak with you someday! haha
Practice and practice and I have no doubt in my mind that you will. If you have any sticking points or questions don’t hesitate to shoot us an email.
Practice and practice and I have no doubt in my mind that you will. If you have any sticking points or questions don’t hesitate to shoot us an email.