And you may find that you will have girls chasing you around trying to sleep with you before you know it.
If any of you guys out there are still running game where you pick a target and try a sniper approach then you know sometimes it feels like you working way way way way too hard. I am trying to switch it up.
I am doing some tweaking and already seeing a huge shift.
I am making a conscious effort to completely scrap my old way of approaching a group and going after a specific girl. It was just way to much work and focused effort. Instead I am adopting the mentality of befriend and charm everyone. Open everyone and charm them all then using social proof and preselection I can position myself to get the girl that I really want.
Building so much value for yourself in the room that the girl you want will already be attracted and want you before you even talk to them.
I have to credit AFC Adam for bring this to my attention. Its amazing and all of my old game still holds true, its just how you go about opening that changes. Also I have found that when done right attraction is already handled and its much stronger then if you just go straight into the set you want.
Friday Night:
I went out with FB/Pivot to the bar to meet up with this girl that I want to get with. I haven’t hung out with her for a while but its always on but logistically its been a nightmare to ever get alone with her so I haven’t closed yet. Its really my own fault for not taking the time off from working to go get her.
She is by far the hottest girl in the bar wearing this cute office attire with a big belt right under her breats. I am in the set I want already and I don’t need to do more work outside of it. I already brought my attraction material with me. My Pivot.
Game girls with girls its soo easy. I feel like I don’t need game doing it this way.
I have found that bringing a hot girl out with you can drastically change the perception everyone gets of you instantly. Girls want what they perceive other girls to have already. My target can’t stop asking if my pivot is my girlfriend. If you are bringing girls with you especially hot girls everyone starts assuming you are sleeping with them whether you are or not. I am but just hanging with them works.
I definitely need a good routine for the question is she your girlfriend because it happened to me twice this weekend from my targets already. Just saying no doesn’t seem to be the best but I will just have to field test different things. I know as I continue to run preselection biased game that its going to constantly come up.
Either way the first goal of the night is to charm her two friends which is now becoming second nature for me. We spend time down town and now I have her roommate in love with me so that should be a good go not to get in my way. My pivot leaves to go to a different bar and the rest of us bounce to another bar. Its me and 3 girls and some guy opens us and I spend 10 minutes tooling him out well the girls laugh at him. At this point I am a little drunk and its amusing so I don’t just ignore him which by the way is the fastest way to blow anyone out.
After last call we all bounce back to the girls apartment. Its a nice little place but the neighbors are outside and one of them decides to come over and be neighborly and have a smoke with us. I charm her and she invites us over for a drink. At this point I could have really used a wing man because I am dealing with 5 different girls and there is only so much I can do at once.
After a few minutes the two girls I came over with go back. At this point I am stuck with a drink in my hand that they just made me and I don’t want to be rude but my target is next door in her room and I have no interest in being social with these new girls. Before I can think of a way out I practically get attacked by the Blonde roommate.
I feel that my rapport skills have hit a new level now that I just try to charm everyone instead of zoning in on one girl. The three girls are captivated and the Blonde one try’s to grab my package with out her roommates looking. The short haired girl notices and starts laughing like crazy which incites the fat one to start freaking out. I quickly smooth over the tension by talking more but at this point the Blonde one must have decided to lay all her cards on the table and feels that its okay to try to make out with me now that her roommates all know and think I am such a charming guy.
She was cute and all, but at this point I really want a challenge and the girl I wanted was right next door waiting for me. I decide to hightail it out of there. I excuse myself and run back next door. Seconds later the Blonde girl is banging on the door looking for me. I am hiding in my HB’s room telling her she needs to protect me. We don’t answer the door and a minute later the Blonde girl is out on the balcony calling for me. Total time charming her like 10 minutes and now she wants my cock bad. Dam my charming self its getting me into trouble these days.
Now at this point I’ve been drinking and my game starts to suffer. My FB starts calling me and my target is all like oo is that your girlfriend calling you. Again I need a good routine for this point because the most I can come up with is yeah she is one of my girlfriends but I think I am starting to fry her circuits or push the player vibe I have 2 girls chasing me hardcore right in front of her. Which to my own fault or credit I purposely did. I am really experimenting on the whole extreme preselection and I don’t know what I am doing yet.
Either way I did something wrong I took her shit test and failed by taking it. Or she needs more comfort and time because She invites me to stay but on the couch. With her roommate watching over us. Again great time I could have used a wing man to separate the two but live to sarge another day. Thus I am getting Cock Blocked because the two of them definitely just conferenced about it and its a no go for tonight I could tell right when they both confronted me instead of the roommate just going to bed.
Either way I know she wants me… hahah she is txting me as I write this so its only a matter of time.
Lesson Learned:
I need to figure out how much is too much but its amazing how much I don’t need to work if I am just using preselection and spiking jealousy. The attraction is extreme compared to talking about any value or using buying temperature. I think because I am actively setting up situations and demonstrating in real time that girls will chase me around.
Thoughts?
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For the answer to the “Is she your girlfriend” question, I think you may try this – I have never field-tested it, but I think it might be quite fun.
You can playfully pretend that she wants to hook up with your pivot : “No, I’m not with her, you can hit on her if you want, I won’t bother you” or “No, her boyfriend is not in this room… (short pause) Oh, by the way, I can’t stand that guy, so if that’s what you want to know, yes, you can hook up with her”
By the way, you don’t even tell her you are single!
For the answer to the “Is she your girlfriend” question, I think you may try this – I have never field-tested it, but I think it might be quite fun.
You can playfully pretend that she wants to hook up with your pivot : “No, I’m not with her, you can hit on her if you want, I won’t bother you” or “No, her boyfriend is not in this room… (short pause) Oh, by the way, I can’t stand that guy, so if that’s what you want to know, yes, you can hook up with her”
By the way, you don’t even tell her you are single!
haha… I will definitely have to try that. I like the first two a lot.
haha… I will definitely have to try that. I like the first two a lot.
“I definitely need a good routine for the question is she your girlfriend because it happened to me twice this weekend from my targets already. Just saying no doesn’t seem to be the best but I will just have to field test different things” i have also been having this problem and saying no just seemed tone down the mood & saying yes seemed like blowing myself out. if you come up with any routine pls post it