I think that fear is something important and I want to talk about it.
With the girls that I want the most, the approach still scares me. I know that once I go I will bring all of my skills to the table, but lately the initial jump has been too hard on certain groups where I am really attracted to a girl.
I think it comes down to a fear of screwing it up. I have to look at it with an abundance mentality. It is also very important to look at everything as a process, not just the outcome because when you only see one super hot girl all weekend it is very difficult to think abundantly. But this in itself cripples the chances of actually that girl.
If you do not approach, you have no experience approaching the type of girl that you really want. We must all break the cycle and always go after what we want. Going after her will in itself breed more motivation to try harder next time. The more we force ourselves to take action and face our fears, the more we will go after what we want and make a move next time. Eventually, if we do this we will have a real lasting change and it will work.
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the approach is a bitch!!
for this reason i like to open easier sets as early as possible cause the more sets I open the easier it gets. the more in the moment i become.
I agree with you – the more in the moment and the more moment-um.